The Truth About Effective Parenting
Andrea Ramsay Speers
When I’m working with parents, as we’re discussing some possible responses to kids’ misbehavior, they will often sigh and tell me just how hard it is, or how [...]
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“What Do I Want Them To Learn?”
Andrea Ramsay Speers
The truth of parenting is that every interaction with your children is an opportunity for them to learn. Kids are like little sponges, picking up bits and pieces and putting [...]
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No More Pity Parties
Andrea Ramsay Speers
Nobody likes to see their kids get hurt. Every parent would like to think that it’s possible for them to help their child make it through life with no hardships, no [...]
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Talking to Our Daughters About Sex
Andrea Ramsay Speers
You may or may not have already had “the talk” with your kids, your daughters in particular. You may be avoiding it like the plague, you may feel that [...]
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A Parent’s Best Friend
Andrea Ramsay Speers
If there’s only one tip that parents should take to heart, it’s this: be consistent. Regardless of what behavior you’re trying to change or what routine [...]
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Teens Need Their Parents
Andrea Ramsay Speers
As a culture, we assume that the teen years are going to be tough on parents. Somewhere between grade seven or eight and the end of high school, we expect problems. We don’t [...]
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Making Change Happen
Andrea Ramsay Speers
If you’ve ever resolved to be a “better” parent or partner (and who hasn’t?) you may have felt a moment or two of frustration over your lack of [...]
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How Do Your Kids Inspire You?
Andrea Ramsay Speers
In what ways do your kids inspire you? Maybe they have an amazing attitude, or a great way of looking at the world when things get tough, or maybe just their outlook on life [...]
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Keeping Our Kids Safe
Andrea Ramsay Speers
Nobody wants their child’s name to be famous because the child is missing. I doubt there’s a parent anywhere whose heart doesn’t break when they hear that a child [...]
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Surviving Sleep-Overs
Andrea Ramsay Speers
Sleep-overs are an important rite of passage for teens and pre-teens. But any parent who’s ever hosted one will tell you that the potential for disaster (spills and [...]
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